Psychologist decodes the meaning behind the five most common types of dreams (and being chased could be a GOOD thing)
- EXCLUSIVE: Femail spoke to psychologist and dream guru Dr Ian Wallace about how to decode the nightmares that unsettle us in waking hours
- Some of the most common dreams include being naked, or being chased
- Dr Wallace advises how you can get a better night's rest by limiting alcohol and coffee intake and resisting the temptation to check messages at 3am
While around 95 per cent of dreams are banished from memory before we've even got out of bed, the ones that stick tend to haunt us for the rest of the day.
A dream - random thoughts, images and sensations during sleep - may only last around five to 20 minutes but they could offer insight into deeper issues.
According to a survey of 2,000 people across the UK commissioned by leading jobs board Totaljobs, a staggering 50 per cent of Brits have faltering sleep over work pressures - with nightmares a frequent occurrence.
Some of the most common - and unnerving - dreams, according to psychologist and dream expert Dr Ian Wallace, include losing your teeth, being chased and not being able to find a loo in time.
Femail spoke to psychologist and dream expert Dr Ian Wallace about what your reoccurring dreams mean, following reports that 50 per cent of Brits are losing 9 hours of sleep a week
Reassuringly, no matter how terrifying a middle-of-the-night pursuit might seem, it could actually be a good sign, as it can signify striving for your goals.
Femail asked Dr Wallace to explain just what those reoccurring dreams mean and how, even with technology constantly around us, you can still get a better night's rest.
TOP FIVE DREAMS DECODED
1. Being chased
If you have nightmares about being chased this could signify that there is an issue in your waking life that you want to confront but are unsure how to do so. This issue is often a great opportunity for you to pursue a particular personal ambition.
Although they may seem scary, your pursuers are actually bringing your attention to your unrealised talents in your own pursuit of fulfillment.
'If you keep dreaming you are being chased then there is an issue in your waking life that you want to confront but are unsure how to do so', Dr Wallace says
2. Teeth falling out
Your teeth symbolise how confident and powerful you feel, so some situation is causing your confidence to crumble in waking life.
Rather than seeing this situation as something that will leave you powerless, just try calmly chewing over the facts and relish it as a challenge that you can really get your teeth into.
'Your teeth symbolise how confident and powerful you feel, so some situation is causing your confidence to crumble in waking life', Dr Wallace reveals of dreams you are losing your teeth
3. Unable to find a toilet
Toilets are what we use to cleanly respond to some of our most fundamental needs, so there is an issue in your waking life where you are finding it a challenge to clearly express your own needs.
This can often occur if you always spend your time looking after the needs of other people, rather than your own needs.
'Toilets are what we use to cleanly respond to some of our most fundamental needs, so there is an issue where you are finding it a challenge to clearly express your own needs', he says
4. Naked in public
We choose our clothes to present a particular image to the people around us, so being naked in public suggests that there is a situation in waking life that is making you feel vulnerable and exposed.
Although it might be potentially embarrassing, sometimes you just have to open up to others so they can see your real talents.
If you are dreaming about being naked a lot you could be feeling vulnerable in your waking life
5. Unprepared for an exam
Exams are how we judge our ability to perform, so this indicates that you are critically examining your own performance in waking life.
Rather than immersing yourself in endless self-examination, the real test of your character is being able to accept your talents by celebrating your knowledge and achievements, instead of constantly judging them.
'This indicates that you are critically examining your own performance in waking life', Dr Wallace advises to stop judging yourself so harshly if you're dreaming of exams
Why we have nightmares and how you can stop them
Nightmares may be scary but they are among the most useful dreams that you create as they alert you to opportunities in your waking life where you can make powerful choices to increase your sense of well-being and levels of fulfillment.
A nightmare is just a particular type of dream experience where your emotions are heightened and a situation feels out of control.
Although the nightmare may seem uncontrollable, you are creating it, and so you can also take steps to resolve it.
The reason that you create a nightmare isn’t to scare or upset yourself but to make yourself aware that something is out of balance in your waking life. If you try to ignore this imbalance, your unconscious awareness will begin to increase the emotional content of the dream and make it apparently scarier and scarier until you start to consciously pay attention.
'As you start paying attention to the issues, the nightmare will fade', Dr Wallace explains
The most disturbing aspect of a nightmare can be the feeling that you have no control over it. You may often feel terrified as your unconscious self illuminates some of your frustrated intentions and unresolved tensions from waking life.
Although this can be a nightmarish experience, you are trying to tell yourself something of vital importance and as soon as you start paying attention to this issue, the nightmare will fade.
It can seem easier to avoid scary dreams but the gift of the nightmare is that it will help you to specifically identify powerful solutions to the frustrations and anxieties you may be experiencing in everyday life.
Dr. Ian Wallace was speaking on behalf of online jobs board totaljobs as part of their campaign to highlight how the 'always-on' culture is disrupting employee sleep patterns and well-being.
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